Trauma-Informed Psychotherapy Puts the Body – and Love – Back in Mental Healthcare

For the past 50 years, psychotherapy took a back seat to biomedical psychiatry, largely due to reliance on medications for the treatment of mental disorders. Yet clinical evidence increasingly points to chronic, unresolved traumatic stress as a primary contributor to many — if not most — mental disorders. Furthermore, longitudinal analyses show continued use of psychotropic medications is bad for the body, even leading to chronic diseases. Granted, medications can stabilize a body wracked by recurrent distress, but such an approach is hardly a long-term cure. 

According to psychiatrist and trauma specialist Bessel Van der Kolk,

dramatic advances in pharmacotherapy have helped enormously to control some of the neurochemical abnormalities caused by trauma, but they obviously are not capable of correcting the imbalance.

To correct the “imbalance” often requires learning to inhabit one’s body and relationships in new ways.

Fortunately, the psychotherapeutic treatment of psychological trauma has significantly advanced the past several decades. In part, this is due to scientific discoveries of how the body and relationships naturally defend against traumatic stress. Trauma-informed psychotherapies that draw from neuroscience and attachment studies are more holistic and scientifically based than ever before, although they often support the intuitions held by originators of psychotherapy and psychoanalysis such as psychiatrists Pierre Janet, Sigmund Freud, and Carl Jung.

The Neurobiology of Trauma

Janet was the first to recognize how the body responds to present events as if past traumas were recurring—what today we call flashbacks. He observed patients,

continuing the action, or rather the attempt at action, which began when the [traumatic event] happened, and they exhaust themselves in these everlasting recommencements.

Today we understand the neurobiological reasons for flashbacks. Unlike narrative memories that seamlessly integrate the elements that make up remembrances — e.g., the feelings, perceptions, thoughts, body sensations, and corresponding beliefs — memories associated with traumatic events largely remain unintegrated. This has to do with how the body has evolved to deal with threat. Thinking about a threat while it is occurring would slow down reaction time. Thus, the frontal lobe — the so-called “thinking part” of the brain — effectively shuts down during perceived threats as energy and attention are directed toward survival responses, such as running from harm. Consequently, a coherent narrative of the traumatic event is not created, inhibiting the past from becoming, well, the past.

These fragmented, and often unconscious, memories can be stimulated by even the subtlest reminders of past traumas. When this happens, the amygdala is also stimulated. The amygdala functions like the body’s alarm for the presence of danger, setting off survival responses even if no danger is present. The stock example of this process is the war veteran who hears a car backfire and automatically drops to the ground because his body “thinks” it hears gunfire. Today, sensorimotor psychotherapy, EMDR, and somatic experiencing are a few of the psychotherapeutic approaches that help release what van der Kolk described as “fixed action patterns” of the body that the trauma survivor would otherwise continually replay.

The Significance of Early Life Relationships

Freud described the psychotherapeutic process as “a cure through love.” Learning to trust love — and seeing oneself as lovable — remains one of the best possible outcomes of psychotherapy. Perhaps this is because even more debilitating than enduring something traumatizing is the pain of facing trauma and its aftereffects alone. Traumatic stress incubates in isolation and feeds on shame. Over time, survivors can lose trust not only in others, but also in their own minds and bodies as they defend against intrusive reminders of past traumatic events.

When beginning psychotherapy, common goals often include gaining control over distressing emotions such as fear and anger, ending depression, creating better relationships, and functioning well at work. Traumatic stress and fragmentation are less frequently seen as the root causes of suffering even though these experiences are often the neurobiological underpinnings of feelings of despair, distress, or impaired functioning. Unfortunately, present difficulties are often the long-term outcome of adapting to maladaptive or traumatizing conditions earlier in life.

Trauma-informed psychotherapies distinguish between two types of traumas:

  • Big “T” traumas associated with fear-based events (i.e., overwhelming experiences that cannot be integrated)
  • Little “t” traumas that result from maladaptive caregiving (i.e., cause emotional distress, but do not overwhelm)

Both can lead to mental disorders later in life as well as problems with intimacy. Connecting current problems to early relationships is difficult. It can be distressing to describe them as traumatic, or even maladaptive, when there are continued feelings of love or dependency on parents or caregivers. Even so, research and clinical evidence reliably show the extent to which we have evolved for specific emotional experiences with caregivers. When these experiences were lacking, or if there was abuse, developing intimate relationships later in life can be challenging. There can also be difficulties with consistently feeling confident, calm, and hopeful about one’s abilities.

Clinical psychologist Robert Karen described attachment theory as a “theory of love and its central place in human life.” According to attachment theory, one of the primary roles of the caregiver is to teach the child how to bond with others and regulate emotions. Emotions are the basis for intimacy and are also fundamental for understanding one’s own needs and desires. Furthermore, having the capacity to regulate emotions is vital for forming relationships and self-knowledge.

Studies conducted by Mary Ainsworth revealed mothers who provided secure attachments

  • reflect sensitivity rather than misattune to emotional needs
  • accept rather than reject the infant’s or child’s emotional needs
  • cooperate with the infant or child rather than attempt to control and dominate
  • appear emotionally available to the infant or child rather than remote
  • adapt to the infant’s or child’s natural rhythms and emotional needs

Challenges to developing secure attachment include

  • the caregiver frequently appears frightened, such as when intimate partner violence is occurring
  • the caregiver is emotionally unavailable, such as when the caregiver is depressed
  • the caregiver is frightening, which is how caregivers are often perceived when they are abusive, suffering from a mental disorder or traumatic stress, or using intoxicants
  • the household is chaotic, keeping the caregiver from emotionally attending to the infant or child

According to the Adverse Childhood Experiences study, two-thirds of US households have conditions that can damage the caregiver-infant/child bond. Adverse childhood experiences also increase the likelihood of later developing mental disorders. Of note, most people receive or seek mental health services after a period of self-isolation, which suggests difficulties trusting others or having safe people in their lives who could offer support.

The Healing Impact of Relationships

Just as treatments for the body’s response to trauma have improved other the years, so has the “love cure” originating with Freud and others. Relationships involving the safe exchange of emotions may be the single most healing experience a person with a history of trauma can have. Yet such intimacy is a two-directional process, which challenges the idea that an effective therapist is a distant one. Early in psychotherapy’s history, Jung realized that psychotherapy heals when both therapist and client are equally invested in the relationship. He went so far as to claim,

unless both doctor and patient become a problem to each other, no solution is found.

The idea of the therapist as a “blank screen,” which Freud advocated, fails to fit present-day understanding of the neurobiological effects of trauma or the nature of attachment. Instead, attachment theorists see healing occur through the repeated experience of finding oneself in the mind of the therapist—and altering that image by genuinely impacting the therapist. Yet to have such an impact on another person means to have a real relationship, albeit one in which the focus in psychotherapy is on the client. Clinical psychologist David Wallin wrote,

psychotherapy ‘works’ by generating a relationship of secure attachment within which the patient’s mentalizing and affect regulating capacities can develop. … such a relationship must be an intersubjective one in which the patient comes to know him- or herself in the process of being known by another.

I would venture to add the client comes to trust love through being loved.

Of course, therapy isn’t the only way to learn to trust love and trust loving oneself. We can begin to do this for ourselves and each other by prioritizing emotional safety and love in all our interactions. Sometimes this is as simple as asking ourselves, Is this emotionally safe for me/him/her/them? Is this loving?


References

Kolk, Bessel A. van der, Alexander C. McFarlane, and Lars Weisaeth. 1996. Traumatic Stress: The Effects of Overwhelming Experience on Mind, Body, and Society. New York: The Guilford Press.

Ogden, Pat, Kekuni Minton, and Clare Pain. 2006. Trauma and the Body: A Sensorimotor Approach to Psychotherapy. New York: W. W. Norton & Co.

Wallin, David J. 2007. Attachment in Psychotherapy. New York: The Guilford Press.

Whitaker, Robert. 2010. Anatomy of an Epidemic. New York: Crown Publishers.

Young-Eisendrath, P. and T. Dawson (Eds.). 2008The Cambridge Companion of Jung. Cambridge, UK: Cambridge University.

Originally published 2013/12/02

Revised 2022/03/08

Photograph: “Love,” By Robert Indiana (1973)

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